I finally
figured out (using
my injured brain and its logic) the reason why my Queen Michele has been telling me that she’s scared
to become my conservator and I must say – sadly – that she’s totally correct, I
can't count the number of times I barked at her for having tossed the receipt that’s always given every time you
pay for something (anything) you
buy in any business or retail store.
I was in
fact the accountant not only in my family but I was overlooking the accounting
departments in every company I ever worked at.
The simple
fact that my college graduation in Italy was in math and science says very well both the level of my studies
and of my overall preparation in these fields. In fact what’s been happening
lately, is me guiding my conservator in doing everything right with both my investments
and life insurance (that will only
benefit my two treasures when it’ll finally be time to pass over).
In making a
very superficial and brief Google search about the inability of wives in
managing money, I found that this isn’t surely my wife's exception,
just look at the websites I link below to have a pretty good sense that this
issue is pretty widespread.
Actually,
this is yet another reason (like another one was needed) to justify my decision to vote for Trump, rather than for Hillary C.
Since the
beginning of time men have been in charge of making their families /wives as
comfortable as possible, while women have been taking care of what men cannot
do, or to procreate/give birth.
I therefore
now understand and (somehow) agree with Michele’s fear to be in charge of our money, it’s
just that she can’t understand that rather than paying tens of thousands of
dollars to a conservator to “take care of my money” I could simply go back to what I was
doing for decades before the injury, however she remains to be terrified
that I might “waste” my money to go after
impossible and not yet FDA approved therapies (no matter that it’s
been used for years to help the recovery of people with TBI, like me) I’m kind of curious (in a sick way) to
see the Enbrel therapy become officially approved by the Australian FDA,
where their Big Pharma surely isn’t as powerful as here.
- https://atypical60.com/page/25/
- http://talkaboutmarriage.com/financial-problems-marriage/64209-wife-cant-save-any-money-driving-me-nuts.html
- http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2012/08/02/when-one-partner-wont-budget/
- http://judgybitch.com/2013/04/30/sulky-little-bitch-cant-manage-her-money-threatens-her-husband-with-divorce-if-he-doesnt-give-her-more-sulky-bitch-is-clearly-also-a-stupid-bitch/
- http://money.cnn.com/2006/03/17/pf/marriage_husbandgripes/
- https://www.mint.com/budgeting-3/how-to-manage-a-budget-when-your-spouse-is-a-spender
- http://blog.credit.com/2014/10/7-money-mistakes-that-can-wreck-your-marriage-98722/