On 8/25/14 I posted FORGIVENESS that while it tells of the
importance to have this ability doesn't tell much about the bigger importance
of the ability to forgive yourself.
I do believe - after much thinking and questioning - that
the inability of my eternal love Michele (now sad former wife and good mother
to the future Lingiardi generations) to ever want to live with me as we did for
more than 15 years before my accident, is all and only related to her inability
to forgive herself for the mistakes she has done at my own personal cost for
years.
As I always do I put few links on this subject and a Youtube
video that demonstrate beyond any doubt that my analysis of such behavior isn't
the fruit of an injured brain, psychology has been addressing this issue for
many years already as well as Catholic religion, how can you move on about
something if you cannot forgive yourself before you forgive someone else?
I guess that it is due to my gigantic self-confidence with
my Catholic upbringing that I fully forgive Michele for all she has done to me,
aside from the true fact that I cannot stop loving her, no matter if I think
about her poor decision making when she was scared for having lost me as the
husband and father in charge of protecting all and everyone in the family that
I myself created and always took good care of.
A good friend of mine - who surprised me showing his
religious faith - once told me that my situation may be God trying to teach to
me that I was married to the wrong woman, but how can anyone even think such a
blasphemy? Not only had our creator God united us in His house (the church
where we married) but also His approval made it clear with the birth of our two
treasures, which are going to bring into the future parts of their mother,
Michele and myself.
Please Michele forgive yourself and let me return to be the
man at your side who protects you and our treasures from all and everyone, no
matter the cost, being confident that no forgiveness for anything is due to anyone
(me or yourself), you simply got terrified by my practical death and everyone
fears death.
- http://tinybuddha.com/blog/learn-to-forgive-yourself-even-when-youve-hurt-someone-else/
- http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-11454/10-ways-to-forgive-yourself-let-go-of-the-past.html
- http://www.prevention.com/mind-body/emotional-health/how-forgive-yourself-no-matter-what
- http://www.wikihow.com/Forgive-Yourself
- http://www.webmd.com/balance/features/learning-to-forgive-yourself
- http://psychcentral.com/lib/how-do-you-forgive-yourself/00016908
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