For those
who know me in person, I don’t think that what I say is of any surprise, I was
born with a huge amount of self-confidence that – aside from having constantly been
in a hurry – it’s even increased simply because - like any other person who
experienced N.D.E. - I’m not afraid to die at all.
Like anyone
else I too used to fear death, even if I wasn’t certainly terrified by it in
the sense that my life was worthy enough to be given up in exchange for someone
else whom I loved really very much (i.e. my wife and my two treasures) I wouldn’t have any hesitation to do such
trade, before my practical death in 2005 too.
Now that I
know exactly what happens when we die, I can honestly say that I’m still
here living with all of this pain is for 2 reasons only, therefore I’m going to
keep bugging my readers for at least 30 (or 40?) more years.
As the
title of this post claims my self-confidence is what I was born with and while
it’s been giving me a real advantage in my career and in the sports I used to
practice, it gave me challenges too, because self-confidence can make people
uncomfortable (especially
when weak), two are
the main examples I can give now and the first one is represented by the mother
of my two treasures and the other by my real sister, I can add too that my
self-confidence can affect also those who are (or were) close to me, in fact I can mention a Ventura sista who was affected with my self-confidence by being close to me for several months who she
started her own corporation and is now surely making very good money.
I can
mention my real sister and the mother of both my treasures too as the examples of
people who are overwhelmed by my impressive self-confidence and decided not to
want anything to do with me, therefore they left me rotting here alone for I
don’t know how much longer (certainly too long J).
In doing my
usual Google search on this topic I found that what I was born with can be
increased with exercises at any age, however (as it’s usual for me) I believe that this is a characteristic of
the personality that someone is either born with it or not and therefore can
never acquire with exercise, I’m thinking that this might be also the
reason that explains why so many MD’s refused to see me again, regardless of
their own personal losses.
- http://addicted2success.com/success-advice/9-ways-to-build-unbreakable-confidence-from-the-outside-in/
- http://www.inc.com/jonathan-alpert/8-ways-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence.html
- http://www.douglasbwimmer.com/musings/2015/8/31/so-about-my-overwhelming-self-confidence
- http://www.successconsciousness.com/blog/inner-strength/developing-self-confidence-and-inner-strength/
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