The last doctor
who assessed me, pretty much took for good all of what the previous one in
Oxnard had written in his assessment, in fact just read what this last doctor wrote, there are at least 20 places where he
makes reference to what the previous one wrote in his assessment of me.
PLEASE NOTE: any
assessment of this kind requires that the assessor talks with the closest
relatives of the assessee in order to have the best idea of the original type
of personality the assessee had. Well, consider that:
·
Both
my parents don’t speak a word of English
·
my
2 children were never contacted by either of these 2 doctors
·
I
don’t know (nor
care to know) about
the former wife
I ask to myself, to my readers and to my judge
(maybe
next time) W.T.F.
is the validity of my two assessments, especially of the last one?
HOWEVER this
last one gave me the chance (thank you)
to show to the court that I can manage my
money, therefore maybe
I don’t need a loser.
BUT here’s how this “experiment” went
down (simplifying):
I was granted of $3K as a start to show my
abilities, no credit of any kind (i.e. no c. cards), a bank acct. on my name BUT with the supervision of my guardian, I was able to receive my
monthly retirement directly in my new bank account and I was in charge of all
my monthly expenses payments.
Now, without
giving real money figures, I’m just going to use percentages, in hope to give
at least the idea of what this test proved, or that I can’t take care of
myself and my family.
55% of my
total income goes to the payment for my residing in an “hotel of superior level”
in Santa Barbara downtown, that’s organized as a retirement community for very
old (and
very wealthy)
people who aren’t self-sufficient anymore mainly due to their age – in fact my being
55 y/o I’m the kid
of this Villa/hotel, the rest of the people who live here are at least
80 y/o.
Another 25%
of my income goes for my treasures support (directly to their mother, who uses it to pay rent
where she’s been living and to pay for all the other expenses of a typical family of 3) as a result of this, their mother
had to get a job so that she can use her salary for all she can’t pay with the
children’s support that comes from me.
Since she
refuses to let me live in my family again (as she has clearly stated more than once) the money is all gone by month’s end.
So - no
credit - $3K as a starting amount (cushion)
here’s how my initial money cushion was used:
1. One afternoon – in the middle of the
month – the ex-wife came into my room/prison-cell,
went into my new bank account – where I already was with my PC - and
transferred the $2K of the children’s support into her own bank account “I need money earlier this month” (she said)
2. A couple of days later my dear son (my creation, I say) came in my room crying and asked $1K to pay
to buy back from a pound shop his sister’s gold bracelet that he had stolen
from her to put some cash in his pockets. Very wrongly I gave him this money with a check of my new bank
account.
3. I paid half the transatlantic
air-ticket for my angel (daughter) to
go to Italy to learn to speak Italian fluently and get to know the Italian side
of our family, all relatives included.
4. The ballet school she’s been attending
called and charged me the monthly fee for 2 months, instead of the half of one
month as it was agreed in the past (and that I was never told).
Because of
the 4 unplanned points I just described I was unable to pay my own rent. Therefore
rather than explaining to my judge that I’m too good of a father (and too stupid former
husband) I ended up
– in agreement with my great attorney - to withdraw from this test, I have
absolutely no need to try to convince anyone of who I really am and where
I put my priorities.
The result
of this total disaster test has been that I must keep this loser, let him
manage all of my money AND pay him for all of
his “very
hard work to pay my bills” in order to support this poor man without
brain and no competence (me,really?) to
be able to have sufficient funds for his retirement, “so I'm forced by the law to allow this loser (and his "legal uddy") to go ahead and steal all the money that I was
planning to use for my retirement (=$80K)”. In the next few days I'll say who I may thank for this disaster.....
- https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/articles/beginners-guide-to-managing-your-money
- https://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-carol-morgan/a-few-ideas-to-improve-money-management_b_9019594.html
- https://www.td.org/insights/5-basic-financial-skills-every-manager-should-have
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